What to wear to gay bar
Girl in a Queer Bar: Femme Fashion Edition
(This is part 2 of the Miss in a Male lover Bar Series. To read part 1, the story of my first trip to a male lover bar and my first girl-on-girl peck, click here.)
What’s up?
Ready for some unsolicited fashion advice on what to wear out on your femme adventure to the lesbian bar? Here it comes!
Disclaimer: Don’t take this too seriously. Some of it is tongue-in-cheek, and all of it is entirely based on my own experiences and what works for me. Moral of the story: Wear whatever the fuck you long, you sexy fierce femme, you.
Alright, shall we begin? Active our way from the top down!
Hair
My advice: wear your hair up.
If you’re a girl appreciate me who cares about what her hair looks appreciate to the aim of affliction, the best thing to do is to start with an up-do of your choosing.
The thing is, it’s probably going to get so hot in there with all those sexy ladies grinding on, around, and/or in you (no judgment) that you will end up throwing your hair up in the middle of the dance floor anyway.
May as well launch with it off your face and neck in a style you had complete control over from the comfort of your bathroom mi
Gay Bars 101: What You Should Understand Before Going to a Gay Bar
So, there you are:
- It’s a Friday night.
- The weather is warm.
- You’ve finished a distant work week.
- You’re just itching to fetch out and possess a bit of fun, mix it up, and own a few drinks to transition you gracefully into the weekend.
There’s this exclude downtown you’ve heard about, and you decide to present it a shot. You shave, shower, brush your teeth, throw together the cutest outfit you can find, and hop in an Uber on your way to this new experience that has your heart beating just a bit faster.
You step through the doors, a smile spreads across your tackle, and you inform yourself, “This is going to be an interesting night.”
A safe room for us all
The bar is filled with people:
- Older men with bright gold rings adorning most of their fingers and chain necklaces slowly swaying across their chests.
- Young twinks—that group of fresh men in their earlier 20s who look like they could model for GQ—are bubbly, chit-chatting with each other and making eyes at every unpartnered man walking by.
- A few women dot the room, drinking casually and engaging in witty conversation.
Let’s not forget the 75-year-old man who
First Time at a Gay Bar_ What To Wear And How To Have Fun
Imagine yourself on a Friday evening, ready to ease into the weekend by going out for lighthearted socializing and libation. What better way to spend your free hour as a gay man than to explore gay bar within (or even outside) your area?
These bars are not simply avenues for senseless fun and sexual liberation. They are also protected spaces for genuine gender statement and celebration of queer culture.
Are you looking forward to going to a gay bar and having an epic night? Decipher this article to get a heads-up on what to predict in queer bars and how you can prepare, especially if this is your first time.
What Is a Gay Bar?
Gay bars, also known as queer bars, are clubs that cater to the queer community, including lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender people. Thus, gay bars were famous to be the social hub for people of all gender identities and orientations.
As day progressed, queer bars were subdivided into the specific gender identities and orientations they primarily cater to, as in the case of gay and lesbian bars.
A Brief History of Gay Bars
Many gay bars were initially operated illegally b
Dress to Impress at the Clubs
October 18, 2007 7:43 PM Subscribe
Recently a friend of mine came out (as gay ) duh, and I'm gonna take him out club hopping, I want to look kind cuz I've been crushing on that guy feeling before he came out... I have a feeling that he feels the same so I just want to make sure that I look my best. Just to reinforce it :)
I'm 27, decent body, can wear fitted clothing and glance good, but can't receive away with skintight (no six pack, but no gut either)
My budget is about $150.. I already have the shoes but need a shirt and some nice jeans... I already have some decent t shirts, so would I be improve served by splurging on a hot pair of jeans?
I want to look somewhat classy, so no completely trashy clothes :)
I was thinking express or banana republic, but there is a Nordstrom's here too but I'm not really experienced with that place.
Please mefites, help me hold his eyes on me.