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Coming Out: Living Authentically as Bisexual+

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No matter who we are or whom we love, our identities are valid, and we deserve the right to live openly as our authentic selves.

Introduction

In many societies, attraction is often presented as a choice between being straight or creature gay or lesbian.

The truth is that many people experience attraction to more than one gender. Often called bisexual, others choose labels such as pansexual, fluid or gender non-conforming. Some also choose more than one label, and the label that foremost bits someone may alter over time. In this guide, we use the phrases bisexual+ or bi+ to encompass all of these non-monosexual identities.

Every sunlight, each and every one of us makes deeply personal decisions about how open we want to be with ourselves and with others about our non-straight sexuality, to whom we want to unlock up, and when and where we want to open up to them. In the U.S. this process is commonly established as coming out, and it varies drastically from person to person.

For bi+ people, coming out can be challenging due to skepticism and stereotypes about ou

Why Do So Many Bisexuals End Up In “Straight” Relationships?

When I started dating website a woman for the first period after years of happily dating men, I had a go-to joke ready for when I was called upon to explain my sexual orientation to the confused: “I’m half gay. Only on my mom’s side of the family.”

I’m one of those people who’d always misguidedly “hated labels,” and I actively eschewed the term “bisexual” for years. I went on to meet a number of trans guys, and in my intellect, “bi” was also indicative of a gender binary I didn’t believe existed. I’ve since approach to understand that actually, the “bi” implies attraction not to two genders, but to members of both one’s own and other genders, and that the bisexual umbrella includes a large rainbow of labels connoting sexual fluidity. These days, I wear the “bisexual” label proudly.

Given all that struggle and growth, my current situation might reach as a surprise: I’m in a committed, long-term affair with a cisgender man who identifies as straight—just love a startling majority of other attracted to both genders women.

Dan Savage once observed that “most adult bisexuals, for whatever reason, wind up in opposite-sex relationships.” Whether or not

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Adult LGBT Population in the United States

This report provides estimates of the number and percent of the U.S. grown-up population that identifies as LGBT, overall, as well as by age. Estimates of LGBT adults at the national, state, and regional levels are included. We rely on BRFSS 2020-2021 numbers for these estimates. Pooling multiple years of data provides more stable estimates—particularly at the articulate level.

Combining 2020-2021 BRFSS data, we estimate that 5.5% of U.S. adults spot as LGBT. Further, we estimate that there are almost 13.9 million (13,942,200) LGBT adults in the U.S.

Regions and States

LGBT people reside in all regions of the U.S. (Table 2 and Figure 2). Consistent with the overall population in the United States,more LGBT adults live in the South than in any other region. More than half (57.0%) of LGBT people in the U.S. inhabit in the Midwest (21.1%) and South (35.9%), including 2.9 million in the Midwest and 5.0 million in the South. About one-quarter (24.5%) of LGBT adults reside in the West, approximately 3.4 million people. Less than one in five (18.5%) LGBT adults exist in the Northeast (2.6 million).

The percent of adults who identify as LG