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Diplo Doesn’t Necessarily Deliberate It’s Gay That Another Man Went Down on Him
DJ and music producer Diplo just revealed that he has had sexual encounters with men before, but that he doesn't categorize these experiences as automatically making him gay.
"I'm sure I've gotten a blowjob from a guy before... For sure," he said to actress and model Emily Ratajkowski on her podcast High Low. "I don't comprehend if it's queer unless you fond of may eye contact while there's the blowjob happening."
Ratajkowski retorted that this was "such a vertical guy thing to say," but Diplo remained certain. "Getting a blowjob's not that gay, I think," he said. (Oh, and all of this was happening as a tangent from their original conversation about Bill Clinton. Which feels apt somehow.)
Later in the interview, Diplo told Ratajkowski that while he definitely does not identify as same-sex attracted, that isn't to necessarily say that he doesn't watch at men (or at least, a small number of men) as potential romantic or sexual prospects.
"I think the best answer I have is I’m not not lgbtq+. There are a couple guys... I could date, being partner-wise," he said, going on to
Retroactive jealousy: Obsessed with my partner’s past
Zachary Stockill's obsessive thoughts about his partner's previous sexual experiences led to the collapse of his first serious relationship. It took time for him to discover that his problem had a name - and that thousands of other people also suffer from it.
I was in my early 20s and, for the first time, I was in love.
One evening my girlfriend and I did what a lot of new couples undertake at the beginning of a relationship - we started talking about our pasts. The conversation moved on to previous relationships we'd both had.
A switch flicked in my brain.
There was absolutely nothing she said that was out of the ordinary, no details that were particularly extraordinary, shocking or even titillating. But something changed.
Her romantic history was suddenly all I could reflect about.
I grew up in a small town in northern Ontario, Canada. My parents had an excellent marriage and for the most part I had a great relationship with them. I didn't grow up with mental health challenges - no depression, no anxiety, no obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).
I loved women.
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Sexual health for queer and bisexual men
Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to pass on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Using a condom helps safeguard against HIV and lowers the risk of getting many other STIs.
If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone unused, you should have an STI and HIV check every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is important, as some STIs do not produce any symptoms.
Hepatitis A
Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.
Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can earn it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated food and drink.
Symptoms of hepatitis A can arrive up to 8 weeks after sex and involve tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).
Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a complete recovery within a couple of months.
MSM can elude getting hepatitis A by:
- washing hands after se
Men who have sex with men (MSM)
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Can same-sex attracted men give blood?
Gay and bisexual men are not automatically prevented from giving blood.
Men who hold sex with men and who have had the same boyfriend for 3 months or more and gather our other eligibility criteria are fit to give blood.
Anyone who has had anal sex with a new boyfriend or multiple partners in the last three months, regardless of their gender or their partner’s gender, must delay 3 months before donating.
We assess your eligibility to donate blood based solely on your retain individual experiences, making the process fairer for everyone.
If you are taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) or post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) you will be unable to grant blood. If you stop taking PrEP or PEP, you will need to wait 3 months before you can give blood.
We recognize that any deferral is disappointing if you want to save lives by giving blood.
If you have previously been unable to donate blood because of the guidelines and would like to donate, please phone us on 0300 123 23 23. One of our team can review the new guidelines with you and, if eligible, manual your next appointment.
Why is there a 3-month wait after sex?
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